hmmm, 11 views, 1 reply (me), not looking good.
How about [url:1sk4jsh1]http://www.homebrewtalk.com[/url:1sk4jsh1] - it's US based. and some of them can tell you where to find decent HBSs too, so you can show your girlf what we're missing out on over here! (and maybe she'll realise that your 'obsession' COULD be a hell of a lot worse if you had a real HBS to visit here in Ireland!)
And maybe, just maybe, if you're REAL nice some of the nice people over there might organise to meet up with you and let you try some of theirs....
As for beers, well I dunno whats available down south, but Arrogant Bastard is supposed to be very nice, it's in south CA at least, I didn't really like Anchor Steam beer much meself, lived on Sierra Nevada to be honest, with the odd foray into Fat Tire.