Ya know, I don't think you can find waves, unless they're public. It's a bit like email. You have to get "sent" a wave, in a way, by being added to it as some point in time. Otherwise it'd be like gate crashing someone's email conversation <!-- s:D --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="

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I have to say, I don't like using it as a chat medium. It gets too confusing as you can add a reply to anywhere in the conversation, so you're going up and down like a hoors knickers. The likes of IRC or messengers are better as it's more linear. The real power is hat it has been billed as a collaborative tool. Take a look at the help tutorials (I did, as I was wondering what the hell was I going to do with it!). There are tips on how to use the damn thing, but also some examples of why you would use it. The best was a short one about a group of people workig on an article. Everyone could be assigned bits to do, comments were added and removed as the text grew, and then it was all cleaned up to a final document. Nice and simple, and interactive.
There are two waves now. One I set up as a way to get the beer bloggers I know on wave together, the other was set up by TBN for ICBers as it became clear there were a good few of us with accounts. These are just topicless conversation sandpits though, but helps <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt="

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